Sat night, was the scariest moment, EVER. Every mother’s nightmare, something I never thought I would have happen to us…….did. Within a split second, our happy world changed and turned upside down. Luckily for us, we were being watched over, because it could have turn fatal, for my newly turned 5 year old. Words can’t describe how I am feeling, thinking of what could have happened and how lucky we are. Saturday night could have been the last time I saw my baby girl, held my baby girl, and soaked in her goofiness. But instead I get to look at this and realize the wonderful gift I was given……..having more time with my beautiful baby girl.
Here’s what happened:
Saturday, was like any normal day in the nice weather, with us being outside for a majority of it. We did yard work, I clean up my side and front garden/yard area. The kids helped me for a while and then went off to play. We went out for ice cream and then went on our 1st family bike ride, (the 3 little ones, Jason, and I were all on bikes together.)
Ari is newer to the whole bike thing. Of course, it made her much slower than the rest of us. I decided to stay behind with her and Jason went ahead with our other two. Ari’s biking wasn’t straight and I kept telling her to straightened out and stop trying to catch up with everyone else. She of course didn’t listen and kept biking way to fast. I yelled at her and she turned around to look at me. As she did, she swerved and pedaled faster. Just then her bike tipped over to the left and when off a cliff.
The emotions I felt at that moment are hard to describe. I felt like I was having a heart attack. I couldn’t breathe. It’s a mother’s worst nightmare. In a split second my world came to a screeching halt. I jumped off my bike, screamed and cried for Jason as I was going over the cliff after her trying to get to her. My baby girl was screaming for me the whole time, even while I was trying to comfort her. Jason was right there with me, maybe a second behind me. He literally jumped over the side and slide down the hill, trying to get his grip. He grabbed her and was able to lift her up to me. I was reaching down from the bike path. As I was comforting her, I looked down and saw how steep that cliff was (which is why I am calling it a cliff not a hill), that it could have been fatal. The only thing that saved her, was her leg got stuck between her bike and a big root or tree that was on the side of the cliff. If she wasn’t on her bike as she went over, I do believe she could have been killed. I began crying as I was holding her, and poor Jason had to comfort me as well as her. I was a mess. A few minutes later, I was able to walk her back to my car and head home. I brought her to the er yesterday since she woke up with her face double the size due to swelling. Nothing was broken or fractured. Nothing was wrong with her eyes, nothing poked them, just a tiny piece of dirt or pebble came out of it yesterday.
She was the luckiest girl in the world. God is always with us, I know this, but last night showed me this. We were given a great gift and no matter how hard our days are (you know those hard mommy days) I will never forget the gift that was given to us. Being able to have more time with my baby girl, is such a great blessing. This day could have turned out bad, it could have turned out to be the last day with had with our Ari Berri on Earth, but instead it was the day that God gave us a great gift. And no matter how my days go, I know this is something that I will always have in the back of my mind, something I will never forget. It was the day I was reminded on how precious life really is, how blessed I for my amazing husband, to be the mother of five amazing and beautiful children, and to still have our Ari Berri’s smiles & sassiness with us.
shared with:
May 26th, 2014 at 5:31 pm
Sarah, I’m so happy about the way things turned out. I know I had a “few” heart stopping moments like that with my kids and they sometimes still give me palpitations. It certainly won’t be the last time something happens that will shake your world. Love to you and your family. Sue
LikeLike
May 27th, 2014 at 2:45 pm
Thank you 🙂
I bet you had more than your share of those heart stopping moments with your crew. And lets not forget about me, I was a pain. hahahaha
I am glad you found my site, since I don’t use my Facebook much. I like it here much better. 🙂
LikeLike
May 26th, 2014 at 5:44 pm
Glad she’s ok!! I can’t even imagine the horror you experienced!!!! Bless your heart. Thankful she’s got a guardian angel!! ❤
LikeLike
May 27th, 2014 at 2:46 pm
Thank you 🙂 She sure does have a guardian angel.
LikeLike
May 26th, 2014 at 5:51 pm
Thank God she was okay. I hope her face is doing alright. That looks like a nasty scrape, but luckily that is all that happened. So glad she is okay and really enjoyed that ice cream. 😀
LikeLike
May 27th, 2014 at 2:47 pm
Thank you. She is doing well today, her face still looks the same but doesn’t hurt anymore. She is a lucky one, that’s for sure.
LikeLike
May 26th, 2014 at 6:08 pm
Oh my goodness how scary that must have been. I am so happy that she is okay. You guys are very lucky. Love that ice cream picture. Don’t kids recover amazingly fast?
LikeLike
May 27th, 2014 at 2:48 pm
We are lucky. Kids do recover fast, much faster than the parents.
LikeLike
May 26th, 2014 at 6:18 pm
Oh that would have been frightening. Thanking the Lord for His protection.
Following you from Weekend Brew,
Blessings,
Janis
LikeLike
May 27th, 2014 at 2:49 pm
Thank you.
LikeLike
May 26th, 2014 at 6:51 pm
Sarah, I am so thankful for God’s protection over Ari. Wow, I cannot imagine having witnessed this. So very thankful.
LikeLike
May 27th, 2014 at 2:49 pm
Thank you 🙂
LikeLike
May 27th, 2014 at 12:18 am
That sounds so scary! I’m really happy to hear that everything is ok. She has such a sweet smile. 🙂
LikeLike
May 27th, 2014 at 2:50 pm
Thank you. I love her smiles, she is such a happy child. 🙂
LikeLike
May 27th, 2014 at 12:14 pm
That cliff is super scary! All I can think of is she had Devine intervention at that time because there’s no way she shouldn’t have gotten more hurt. So glad she’s ok, I’m sorry she and you dealt with that, it makes me sick just thinking of it. We love you ari berry!
LikeLike
May 27th, 2014 at 2:57 pm
Thank you 🙂 I replay that moment over and over…….it makes me sick and my chest hurts.
I went to the town hall this morning, when they opened and brought Ari in so they could see her face. I talked with 3 people about what happened and one of the guys said he would go out there today and look at it. A woman chimed in and said that they should put up a guardrail because kids could get hurt worse, if there parents don’t watch them. I was watching Ari and that happened. So, I really hope they put up a sign and a guardrail to prevent this happening to others.
LikeLike
May 29th, 2014 at 12:24 am
That must have been scary. I am glad your little girl came out of it unhurt, and that it made you thank The Lord. She, by the way, looks like a survivor. 🙂 God is love.
LikeLike
May 29th, 2014 at 2:10 am
What an ordeal. I am so thankful she came away with a minor injury and is healing well. God definitely had His hand on her. Thank you for sharing your story at Monday’s Musings. Have a good week.
LikeLike
March 13th, 2015 at 3:17 pm
Reblogged this on Living Intentionally Simple and commented:
Once a week, I thought it would be fun to share an older post from my other blog. Here’s this week’s post….
LikeLike
March 13th, 2015 at 3:42 pm
So happy this turned out good!! beautiful little girl you have 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
March 19th, 2015 at 5:29 pm
You and me both, thank you.
LikeLiked by 1 person
March 13th, 2015 at 6:12 pm
That’s a really scary incident and I’m glad she’s fine with nothing worse than a swelling face. I think the hardest would be that there was nothing you could hv done at the moment it happened. Bless her! And you. ☺
LikeLiked by 1 person
March 19th, 2015 at 5:31 pm
Thank you 🙂
That is a good point, there wasn’t anything I could do to have prevented this, which if it turned out differently would have been the hardest to accept. Thankfully things turned out great and I didn’t have to go down that road. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person